On the outside, I looked like a confident “boss babe.”
But on the inside, I was never satisfied with my accomplishments, mercilessly berating myself for how I looked and unable to cut myself a break without an avalanche of guilt and worry consuming me.
Years of chronic stress wrecked my health.
I was diagnosed with PCOS — my hair was falling out, I had painful acne, constant migraines, excruciating period pain and debilitating fatigue.
Even after landing my “dream job,” I felt like a fraud on a treadmill I couldn’t step off.
I was my own slave master — pushing harder, doing more, never enough.
Then in 2021, I joined the Positive Intelligence program — mostly to prove it wrong.
It claimed I could be more productive and happier. I rolled my eyes and laughed.
But since then?
✅ My health did a full 180. No more migraines, no more mid-day crashes. My skin cleared, my energy came roaring back, and I haven’t touched migraine meds in years. Honestly, I feel better now than I did in my 20s.
✅ I stopped obsessing over food and my body. After a lifetime of disordered eating and daily weigh-ins, I no longer starve myself. My weight’s been stable for years — without the drama.
✅ Work stopped being a battlefield. I dropped the “pick me” energy, stopped micromanaging and let go of the need to prove myself. I stopped feeling like everyday I was under attack.
✅ My marriage got even spicier. I stopped giving my husband the burnt-out scraps of me at the end of the day. I show up present, playful and open — and after almost 15 years, we’re more connected than ever.
✅ I finally bet on me. In 2022, I left corporate to pursue my business full-time. Once I stopped fixating on my flaws, I saw my gifts clearly — and built a profitable, purpose-led business around them.
✅ I became the woman I used to envy. Not because I hustle harder, but because I finally lead with ease, flow, pleasure and play. I still use my masculine strengths — but now they’re balanced with feminine energy that feels damn good.
Little me, already on the hamster wheel of overachieving and stressing.
On the outside, I looked like a confident “boss babe.”
But on the inside, I was never satisfied with my accomplishments, mercilessly berating myself for how I looked and unable to cut myself a break without an avalanche of guilt and worry consuming me.
Years of chronic stress wrecked my health.
I was diagnosed with PCOS — my hair was falling out, I had painful acne, constant migraines, excruciating period pain and debilitating fatigue.
Even after landing my “dream job,” I felt like a fraud on a treadmill I couldn’t step off.
I was my own slave master — pushing harder, doing more, never enough.
Then in 2021, I joined the Positive Intelligence program — mostly to prove it wrong.
It claimed I could be more productive and happier. I rolled my eyes and laughed.
But since then?
✅ My health did a full 180. No more migraines, no more mid-day crashes. My skin cleared, my energy came roaring back, and I haven’t touched migraine meds in years. Honestly, I feel better now than I did in my 20s.
✅ I stopped obsessing over food and my body. After a lifetime of disordered eating and daily weigh-ins, I no longer starve myself. My weight’s been stable for years — without the drama.
✅ Work stopped being a battlefield. I dropped the “pick me” energy, stopped micromanaging and let go of the need to prove myself. I stopped feeling like everyday I was under attack.
✅ My marriage got even spicier. I stopped giving my husband the burnt-out scraps of me at the end of the day. I show up present, playful and open — and after almost 15 years, we’re more connected than ever.
✅ I finally bet on me. In 2022, I left corporate to pursue my business full-time. Once I stopped fixating on my flaws, I saw my gifts clearly — and built a profitable, purpose-led business around them.
✅ I became the woman I used to envy. Not because I hustle harder, but because I finally lead with ease, flow, pleasure and play. I still use my masculine strengths — but now they’re balanced with feminine energy that feels damn good.
